For any coming family reunion please do the following:
Unless you are asked for advice, stop telling people what they should do in their lives, because honestly no one wants to take the advice of a person he sees only twice a year!!
Stop commenting on everyone's outfit, makeup, etc!
Don't you ever tell a girl that she has gained a lot of wight since the last time you saw her and start preaching about how she should lose weight before getting married or else she would never be able to return to how she was before!!!
Never ask a newly married couple if there are any expected babies!
Don't tell the unmarried how important marriage is and how they should put it before their career or college!
STOP saying how much the younger generation is spoiled and the older one used to be more responsible, ethical, hardworking, etc.
Don't talk about people behind their backs thenin order to appear honest you start saying what you said behind their back in a better, friendly laughing manner!
And finally, if you don't have something new to say, shut up and stop repeating the same boring conversations you repeat every single reunion. (You might as well record a tape and play it every reunion instead!)
"Don't tell the unmarried how important marriage is and how they should put it before their career or college!"
ReplyDeletebecause everyone is interfering in my life, I stopped attending family gatherings, they hate me and I hate them back !!